Sunday, August 23, 2009

Huckleberries!!

Huckleberries in Idaho! What a treat to actually go up into the mountains and enjoy some time with my little sister. She wanted to get huckleberries for our Thanksgiving dinner ... and I was more than willing to go help. Beautiful Idaho! It was a gorgeous weekend for a quick get away from Texas to visit my temporarily widowed sis. Misty would sit in just the right spot on the mountain side so her cell phone would have coverage. There was the slight chance her hubby would call from boot camp. Guess what ... he did! It's been fun to be apart of the Richmond's lives. Seems I have been around a lot when they were long distances from each other and catching up. Reminded me of the good 'ol times in Texas.



So not only did I get some huckleberries to bring back to Texas, we had some Idaho Fall's Hong Kong fried rice and sweet and sour chicken for lunch WITH a coveted and rare Cherry Ironport from Scotty's Hamburgers ... AND we stopped for some "Squeaky Cheese" and freshly made waffle cones at Reed's Dairy. We couldn't leave out a baseball game to top it off! Yes Idaho Falls has a very nice baseball stadium and it was such a beautiful evening out.



We had homemade huckleberry muffins for Sunday morning breakfast, had a nice walk around the neighborhood, and then I made a mad dash for Salt Lake to catch my late afternoon flight.

What a recharge to my soul to have been back in the Idaho hills and mountains. Thanks Woo!

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Helping Others

Take a moment to look around you and think about the things in your life that you've come to rely upon and consider a basic necessity. Perhaps it's watching television, heating up a quick meal in the microwave, or staying cool by air conditioning. On a higher level, perhaps it's your house, a car, a job, your church, school, the grocery store and the variety of food options found there, and when you just don't feel like cooking - you can always go out to eat.

Now imagine life without most, if not all, of these things. Imagine life without a car and the only places you can get to is by walking. Imagine having to pick a branch off a tree or finding a piece of garbage to burn to create fire to cook with. Imagine outhouses and cold showers. Imagine eating beans for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. There are people in the world that live this way. And its easy to set thoughts of this aside and go about our life pretending it doesn't exist. This is what I've done all my life. Oh, I've seen the infomercials on TV where I can sponsor a child, or feed a family for the price of a cup of coffee, etc... but I never put a serious thought to it - until now!

On May 2nd Zach and I had the opportunity to give our time and travel to Tegucigalpa Honduras as part of a mission trip with the Quinta Terra organization. To say it was an eye-opening experience would be an understatement. In Honduras you have the poor and the very poor. I'm sure there are wealthy people too but I never saw any indication of them. Most people do not have jobs and do not really know how to provide for the basic necessities in life. They are poor and uneducated. They also don't have any religious influence in their lives.

As part of a mission to provide these people with basic necessities and teach them about Jesus, we were able to take approx 40 boxes of donated clothing, pots & pans, toys, school supplies, etc... and distribute them to the very needy at two church start-up locations - one inside the city and one right outside the city. Everyone was allowed to go through the line and pick up one item, then cycle back to the end of the line and repeat the process. This way the lucky people in the front can't get all the good stuff. It is heartbreaking to see children go for pots & pans before toys but true necessity comes first here.

I think I speak for both of us when I say this was one of the most rewarding experiences of our lives. It's amazing the feeling that comes over you as you see person after person walk out of the distribution center carrying what they need most. The smiles on their faces says it all.

Here are a few pics from the trip.




This is a typical home in a very poor area of the city. It has two rooms - a living room and a bedroom. There is an outhouse to the left of the house. The kitchen is actually in the front yard. This family is lucky to have electricity that runs a small fridge in the living room.







This is a picture of a kitchen in a nicer home. Unfortunately no electricity! When the sun goes down they move around by candle light or moon light. To heat up the stove, they pick a branch from a tree.













This is perhaps the most disturbing picture of all taken. These are drums where water for drinking is collected and stored. On the black drum you can make out the word "poison".










Here is a picture of a typical little boy who is happy to have received a stuffed animal.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Cherry Blossoms Everywhere

What better way to spend the weekend than relaxing on a mini vacation - our first for 2009!

On 4/11 we packed our bags and headed to Washington DC for the annual Cherry Blossom Festival. Every year around this time, the streets and basin of Washington DC fills with the sweet aroma and eye pleasing views of thousands of cherry blossoms. They were everywhere!

We left out on Saturday morning and arrived in DC a little after lunch. After dropping our luggage off and a quick change of clothes we headed out to see the sights. Not a minute is wasted when traveling with me. The trees were amazing. Everyone else must have thought the same thing, it was sunny, about 65 - 75 degrees and people were everywhere!!!!!!!

We ended up seeing a lot of other things too. We saw the White House, Capital Building, Jefferson Memorial, WW2 Memorial, Zoo, National Archives (where the actual Declaration of Independence & U.S. Constitution are housed), and a DC United soccer game (my first time attending a professional soccer game). The game almost didn't happen though... As attentive as we both are, Zachary and I somehow ended up buying tickets to an Arena Football game instead of the soccer game. Don't ask how it happened; I'm still not sure myself. In all fairness, the lady that sold us the tickets was wearing a DC United shirt. Oh well, it was quickly corrected and laughed off.

During our trip we stayed at the Capital Skyline Hotel. Considering we waited until we arrived to even begin looking for a place, it ended up being decent accommodations. I rarely make guaranteed reservations when I non-rev since I never know if I'm actually going to make it somewhere until the wheels of the plane are off the ground.

Well, that about wraps up my first addition to this blog thing. I'm not a writer so it really takes a lot of effort for me to come up with something thoughtful and interesting. I guess I'll comment on a few other events and call it quits.

#1
In 4 days (April 30th), Zachary and I will celebrate our "official" one year anniversary. We've been dating a little over 2 years now but last April 30th is when we decided to get serious.
#2
This Saturday (May 2nd), we are planning to go on weekend mission trip to Honduras as part of the Quinta Terra organization. We will be donating our time to travel to extremely poor areas of Honduras and delivering clothing, toys, school supplies, and vitamins to impoverished children. Words can't say how excited I am about this opportunity as it represents the first time in my life that I have volunteered to give anything other than money. We have to non-rev so I hope it works out. Please pray for us along with the other volunteers to have a safe trip and make a difference in the lives of these people. If we make it, I'll be sure to make another entry with thoughts and pictures.

Bye!

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

New Life

What a joyous weekend it was to spend in Utah soaking in the new addition of life to the Nielsen family. Bridger is a sweet and very calm addition. All of the Nielsen's converged in the Hampton Inn in Salt Lake City, UT for the blessing of this little tike. You definately could feel the blessings of the generations being bestowed through Jake to his new little family.

Many of us are also very greatful that my nephew Braxton is still kickin' it with us. Unbeknownst to anyone, his poor body had been fighting a sugar imbalance the past few weeks and culminated in a near death experience Saturday night. What a blessing to all be together in Utah near one of the best children's hospitals in the nation. You can't help but be greatful for every working part of your body after walking the halls of a PICU.

I am so thankful I was able to give Brandy a real hug as her guts were squeezed out by this horrific instantenous trial. My hearts and prayers are singing to the heavens as that wild Vegas family readjusts to a new lifestyle. Cheers to many many future smiles and frowns with Braxton in our midst!

Sunday, February 15, 2009

A Start

So it's time to get this party started! I've had this blog created for 4 months now ... and still no posts. So I asked Michael if we could work on our blog for Valentine’s Day. He's good with getting the pictures just right and being diligent tending to the details.

For those of you finding this for the first time ... the previous paragraph did say 'our'. Michael and I have known each other for about two years. Our relationship started into the serious realm shortly after April 30th 2008 when Michael sent me a letter sharing some of his heart and hopes that our time together would increase. Most of you know it takes Zachary LOTS of time to warm to something that involves commitment. After a few cautious months, I finally was feeling maxed out coordinating which place we were meeting at with all the other competing irons I had in the fire. Michael has a beautiful home, so I decided to move a few of my clothes to one of his drawers in September. After that small step worked, I spent November and December transferring small truckloads of my stuff to his house (2 months to get cold feet without too many consequences ;-). And it's been a wild and wonderful ride since!

Some of you will still be reeling from this new found blog that Michael is not a Michelle. Yep, it’s taken me 10 years to sort this out. It has been a mighty intense journey. Being raised Mormon and figuring out that the good Lord wired you to be attracted to the same sex ... tends to stretch every foundational string of purpose that one can possibly bear. I've tried many of the 'going straight' programs ... Evergreen, church counseling, Renew ... and offered many soul racked prayers to God that He would take away this horrible 'sinful' burden. This journey has taken me to the depths of despair, to the edge of death, and to the pinnacles of understanding and peace. I think a mother who lost her son to suicide for being gay sums up the toiling of my journey well: "I know now why God didn't heal [my son]. He didn't heal him ... because there was nothing wrong with him." [Prayers for Bobby] This lesson coupled with Aristotle’s wise observation that “nature does nothing without purpose” is the root from which I now grow.

I'll never forget the day I walked into the Cathedral of Hope and saw hundreds of rejected, scorned, abandoned, broken and tired souls that had been mauled and kicked from their congregations because they had been born with different desires than their other family members and friends. It was as if the Lord had walked me right into one of his parables. These were the broken and lonely and rejected individuals that the Savior invited to his feast when none of the other invitees showed up (Matt 22:1-10). And in that instance, I understood how much God loved all his children and provided a way for them to be nourished by His love … even when those that were tasked and taught to minister to these lowly beggars were shunned from the very house He created for all.

This blog is one of the final steps to merge my 'straight life' and true life together. I love Michael; he brings amazing happiness and connection from places I never knew existed. The time has come for the mysterious life of Zach to be transparent and for all to understand the goodness I have found in the many other souls “blessed” with that damn gay gene.

Cheers to what the future holds … and may God always be the fierce leader of all our journeys.